Wet Friday
Driving to work in drizzle, this morning. Somehow the raindrops make the mild road congestion a bit bearable.
Didn't feel like waking up this morning. These past few days felt like I'm living in between high temperature on my left and low temperature on my rights. There's occasional sharp pain at the tip of my toe and on my knee. The nights are too damn cold; had to wear thick sock to sleep. Mr barney, the little bundle of boundless energy slapped my face when I tried to sleep early. I knew you were afraid to be left alone Mr barney, but there're yai and nyai to play with.
Suffered one of the worst head-ache yesterday. The occasional cough sent tremor to my cranium.
After I got back from work, asked Mak to place her back of hand near my neck. Asked her if there's any temperature rise. That's what we always do when we are feeling down; in a way asking for sympathy, understanding,attention, whatever.
Mak said it's normal that when someone we love left, he/she took a little piece of you with h**. Eventhough our mind are denying the pain, our body will show it in some way or another. Even my stronger sister, Angah is down with fever.
Worklife is too damn hectic this week; daily meetings, seminars,appointments,etc. I'm reminded of a Thai professor philosophy. Even though you want to be an easy going person and don't like (office)politics sometimes you have to deal with technical politics - in getting commitment fullfilled from your peers, in getting coorperation and getting the instructions followed (and excuses reduced) by your anak buah and getting resources (fund,floorspace,reminding h** the procedure to follow,empowerment) from your superior.

Life can be made easy.

Just semile; any ever-gracious Thai would say the English word in Thai lingo.

URL
http://smile.cpe.ku.ac.th

Supir
4.30 am : Mak woke me up. Still groggy. Felt like sleeping till 6.30 am. Ah, now remember; got to pick up Pokchu, my kid-brothter at Hentian Putra. He's on his one-month break from KUSTEM.
5.20 am : reach the entrance to HP Multi-level Parking. Yikes!, some j****ss parked h** WE1** banger with protruding rear blocking half the entrance. Come on lah, if you can't tuck your banger nicely out of the way for others to enter the parking area, leave ur banger @ home and take ur brain wid u!
6.17 am: Reach SU. Solat.
6.41 am: off to work.
7.20 am: Pass thru the traffic light near C*L**X Damansara Damai. Phew!! this is the feeling of getting stucked in a traffic-jam; not a nice feeling. (Definitely not to be repeated)Usually leave for work around 6.15++ am (but no later than 6.25 am) and reach U* a few minutes past 7.00 am.
7.55 am: Reach F* and done with parking.
8.02 am: swipe smart-card and clock-in for work.

*Supir ~ Chauffeur

Ambengan
Yesterday's Tahlil for my late Makwo was accompanied by Ambengan ; a dry but coriander-and-cummins-fragrant dish in a huge rounded tray.
After the Tahlil, the women would take a peek on how the male guests react to the dish (quite hilarious). Some just melopong while the 'wise' one would divide the dish into equal portions and transfer it into plastic containers laced with banana leaves (in the old days newspaper laced with banana leaves carried in large clean cotton hankerchief) to take home (berkat)for the love ones. The guests were suppose to share (eat) the remaining together. Another symbol of berkat.
Reminds me of my late nyai who used to prepare mee siput fried with black pepper as one of the nasi ambeng dish.
Reminds me of my childhood, where my sister, my two brothers and I would put a large portion of white rice, vegetables and lauk on to a smaller rounded tray perched on an overturned wooden lesung Bapak made. We gathered around the dulang and enjoyed (we call it makan-duri short for makan khenduri) the meal to the last grain of rice.

More info on nasi ambeng:
1)http://fajaronline.tripod.com/onlinelog/20mei.htm
2)http://www.danchan.com/weblog/harimauj/45061
3) wkdin juga ;)

Who wants to be a millionaire ?
(Quoted from Zikrah on RMKL)

If you are posed a question:

How many gates are there to Jannah ?
A. 6 gates
B. 7 gates
C. 8 gates

And if you choose a life-line (to help answer the question) by contacting somebody anywhere in the world, who do you contact ?

An engineer who's not aware of the related hadith?
An engineer who's aware of the related hadith?
A person who read hadith ?

RIYADH_AS_SALIHEEN/BOOK9/CH185:THE MERITS OF ABLUTIONS(WUDU')
1032. `Umar bin Al-Khattab (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "Whoever of you performs Wudu' carefully and then affirms: `Ash-hadu an la ilaha illallahu Wahdahu la sharika Lahu, wa ash-hadu anna Muhammadan `abduhu wa Rasuluhu [I testify that there so no true god except Allah Alone, Who has no partners and that Muhammad ((PBUH) is His slave and Messenger],' the eight gates of Jannah are opened for him. He may enter through whichever of these gates he desires (to enter).''
[Muslim].



Volume 4, Book 55, Hadith Number 644:SAHIH BUKHARI
Ubadah bin As-Somit r.a reported:
The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said: Those who testifies/affirms (recite the shahadah):

`Ash-hadu an la ilaha illallahu Wahdahu la sharika Lahu, wa anna Muhammadan `abduhu wa Rasuluhu

and that Isa is Allah's Slave and His Apostle and His Word (KUN) which He bestowed on Maryam and a Spirit created by Him, and that Paradise is true, and Hell is true, Allah will admit him into Paradise with the deeds which he had done even if those deeds were few." (Junada, the sub-narrator said, " 'Ubada added, 'Such a person can enter Paradise through any of its eight gates he likes.")

Related URL:
1) http://hadith.al-islam.com/Bayan/Display.asp?Lang=mal&ID=14
2)http://www.dartmouth.edu/~alnur/ISLAM/HADITH/RIYADH_AS_SALIHEEN/book9.htm
3)http://www.dartmouth.edu/~alnur/ISLAM/HADITH/RIYADH_AS_SALIHEEN/book9.htm#CHAPTER%20185
4)http://www.islamicity.com/mosque/sunnah/bukhari/055.sbt.html#004.055.643

Atypical week (30th Sept - 6th Oct 2003)
30th Sept '03 - visit Makwo after servicing car. Saw her feet wrapped in sock. Cold. she said. Left for Sg Buluh after leaving Cik Y's duit bawang with Makwo. Have to reach SB before three; promised Mak to take her to Eco*s*ve to buy our monthly supply of groceries.
1st Oct '03 (1.00+ am) - received news from Pak Man. Makwo (Mak's eldest sister) passed away around 12.30 am. Al-Fatihah. Official cause of death - Athsmatic Attack. She's been on supported breathing for 2+(?) years. One of her young grandchildren (she has 14) quipped 'Nenek sakit idung'. May ALLAH blessed her with better the best life in the hereafter.
2nd,3rd,4th,5th - Tahlil after Isha'. Have been shuttling Mak to Keramat in the morning. Returned to SB to pick up Bapak in the evening, to attend tahlil. SU has been our hotel for the past few days; a place to lie down until morning when journey to Keramat began again.
Today(6th) - tonight, the 7th Tahlil. The Tahlil will be followed by Ambengan.

Typical Sunday
Another typical Sunday for me.

Morning:
Week-end (hand) washing. Yet to learn how to use one of those washing machine. Besides, Mak had just hand-over her old washing machine to my cousin for tinkering or dumping, whichever applies.

Watering the lawn. Bunga raya tanglung pruning.

Rearranging my two tote-bag contents. Lately felt more and more like Rory Gilmore. One tote-bag for my akhirat reading material. One bag for techie reading material. No wonder my shoulders felt like an imbalanced dacing.

Week-end Chauffering(10.30 am):
Pick Mak up from kebun. Take pokok asam keling for Bapak to replant. Leave Bapak to continue with his gardening and fishing.
Send one of those labu air (Bapak & Mak labour of love) to Pakcik's house.

Continue Journey to Keramat via Pekan Kepong-Jalan Kucing-Jalan Pekeliling-Jalan Semarak-Jalan Kent. Stopped at Lorong Kiri 16 to pick up Bingka Bombai for Cik Tun's merisik.

Send Bingka Bombai to Cik Tun.

Transit at Makwo's house for Mak's three o'clock appoinment with Cik Tun's merisik entourage. Had Nasi Dagang lunch made by Mak Ngah. Must find time to experiment with the remaining of my Rice King Somali. This King Somali is really berani air. Last time I tested, one cupful of King Somali required 3.5 cup or water, before it's tanak (properly cooked). Not like those Beras Wangi; takut air. If not careful, might end-up with bubur eksiden.

Watched Anita. {Don't have Astro at home lah, even RM45.00++ cannot fit into my monthly budget}. Nice programme on Anita - Bukan ku Pinta {or something like that, don't have photographic memory like Mahathir lah }. Bukan ku Pinta is a program about our Warga Istimewa. Learn about many things from our Mr Rasul, Mrs Rohana, the doctor from Disease Control {forgot his name}, Mr Tuah the lawyer. Reminds me not to judge ppl with their outward appearance, not to take advantage of the 'handicapped priviledge',fighting spirit,no such thing as limited capability; we can always learn and make others understand better , etc.

2.30pm: Send Mak Ngah for her Sunday OT at ChipPack. Drop Mak at Taman Keramat to join Cik Tun's entourage. Return back to Makwo's house to pay myself hutang tidur. Was still dizzy from the Putrajaya trip.
4.45pm: Pick up Mak. Drop by at Giant Permata. Packed like sadin. Sale or something. Return to Sg Buloh via Lingkaran Tengah 2.

One the way home, refuel and check tyre pressure at Petronas Paya Jaras.
6.45pm: Reached home.
9.00pm: Watched Mahathir on TV3 while ironing my working dress. Muslim woman must look presentable {Just learned from Ideal Muslimah; Chapter Two} via Pak Adib's blog.
10.30pm: Do a bit of reading on Instant Palm OS Applications.
5.30am (Monday): Mak woke me up. When did I fall asleep ?

Visit to Putrajaya
This is how I'm going to spend my Saturday-working-day.
Will depart at 8.10am.
Hope we have enough time to visit one of our 'drop-point'; Taman Botani. I'm taking my copy of 'Herba & Perubatan:Tradisi Zaman-Berzaman. Maybe I can spot some of them plant. Am also hoping Taman Botani sells one of those 'high-value' herbs. Not Tongkat Ali lah!
I bet some of the ladies (moi, inclusive) hope we have time for Souq, too.

Ta Ta. Wish me safe journey!!

At-Tur the 52nd Surah
At-Tur (The Mount)
52nd Surah
Revealed in Makkah
49 Ayat

{Mentioned in 'Wahyu' programmed, aired by RMKL, yesterday(Khamis) morning (5.30 am) and evening (5.45pm)
Ustaz Haji Ahmad Shukri of PPZ was discussing tafsr of Surah An An'Am (The Cattle), ayat 39}


6:39 Those who reject our Signs are deaf and dumb,- in the midst of darkness profound: whom Allah willeth, He leaveth to wander: whom He willeth, He placeth on the way that is straight.
}

It is reported that Saidina Umar Al-Khattab fell sick for 30-days when he heard the recitation of Surah At-Tur, ayat 1 to 5.

52:1 By the Mount (of Revelation);

52:2 By a Decree inscribed

52:3 In a Scroll unfolded;

52:4 By the much-frequented Fane;

52:5 By the Canopy Raised High;

This event showed the 'value' of Saidina Umar Al-Khattab's 'Iman' to the Wahyu of Allah.

What about ours? Have we tried to polish it as blogged by Pak Adib ?

M. Bakri Musa's Malay Dilemma Revisited
{Read the "Intro..." chapter on "Malay Dilemma Revisited..." last night. I almost gave up while trying to locate this book at the library. The first time I went there in the evening, the book was nowhere to be found. The next day, I followed my intuition and when there again. Voila(not a bad intuition, eh), 2 copies; one reference and one available for loan. Alhamdulillahi rabbil 'Alamin.

Must be a popular book. Judging by number of copies kept, and most of them are still charged to borrowers...}

My initial comment:
1) Very simple (but effective) Language
2) hmm, now I (thought) I know what sort of economy policy favoured by IMF, and what sort favoured by Dr. M . I thought lah. Don't know much about economics. Took only three credits (one subject) during my Uni. year
3)Maybe I can go thru the summary (by M.Bakri Musa) of Malay Dilemma written by Dr. M. Then I can go find the book.

That's all for now. I'll blog again(Insha Allah) about it later, when I finished reading the book, or ready to make an overall comment.

P/S: Thanks to the SuaraMalaysia blogger who featured NizamZakaria interview with M. Bakri Musa, I found about this book.
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Info about Malay Dilemma Revisited
Full Title: Malay Dilemma Revisited, Race Dynamics in Modern Malaysia
Author: M. Bakri Musa
Publisher:Merantau Publishers, Gilroy, CA.
Year Published: 1999
Estimated Book Price: 54.00 (UM PekanBuku)
ISBN:1-58348-367-5

Additional Link(s):
http://nizamzakaria.diaryland.com/bakri.html

Zikr from Al Qur'an
{Heard halfway thru the above topic on IKIM around seven(ish) this morning. Couldn't recall the ustazah name, but thought I could recognise her if she were to be featured again on TV.She has a mole on her face, probably near her chin below her lips. A few months ago, the ustazah and her husband were featured on TV1. If not mistaken she served meehoon or yellow mee, or maybe spaghetti 8) for the TV-journalist who covered the story}

Anyway, I want to share a little something with you on the above matter.

1)The simplest zikr favoured by Allah. This kalam is not from Qur'an: recitation of
Subhanallah, walhamdulillah,walailaha ilallah, wallahu akbar
You can recite it any which way you desire. Either in the above sequence, or any sequence, or each Subhanallah (as many times), Alhamdulillah (as many times), Lailaha ilallah (as many times), Allahu akbar (as many times).

2)The best zikr is Tilawah(Recital of) Al-Qur'an.

3)Or you can search zikr from the Qur'an.

4)The best way is to learn the qalamullah in the Qur'an is to learn them and then teach to others.

5)Those who read and amal the Qur'an, his/her parents will be crowned with Nur. When the parents ask why are they treated in such honour, they will be answered," it's due to your son/daughter who reads the Qur'an.

6) One hurf in the Qur'an read, the reciter will be rewarded 1 X 10 good deeds (pahala)
Alif Lam Mim - 30 good deeds
Bismillahirrahmanirrahim - 190 good deeds

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Additional link

http://members.tripod.com/mutiara75/karya/taalim.htm
http://tanbihul_ghafilin.tripod.com/fadhilatalquran.htm
http://www.jaring.my/annur/tajwid/hadith.htm